I have had some of my best nights in London at Torture Garden parties. Fetish nights are quite numerous in London but you’d be hard pushed to beat the popular Torture Garden parties. My favourite is Halloween at Mass in Brixton. To get in you must be dressed in fetish gear, or have it in a bag that the doorman can search. If you follow the latter path you just change in the toilets. If it is your first time I suggest wearing leather pants and a top that accentuates your physique for boys. For girls show a little flesh and be as sexy as can be and you’ll be onto a winner. Don’t be led into thinking this place is just about whips, chains and sex, although it can be if that is what you are looking for. Many people go for escapism and the chance to dance the night away with no cares or worries. My favourite thing is to shake my stuff like an animal in one of the cages suspended over the dance floor. If you feel for something a little kinkier, one of the many dominatrixes would be happy to whip you downstairs in the dungeon. It is truly hedonistic pleasure where nobody judges you, and for a night you can be whatever your darker side wants you to be. I can’t relay enough how you do not have to get involved in anything if you don’t want to. Just to go to see the spectacular outfits, and enjoy the music is enough to make Torture Gardens a great night. Torture Garden isn’t actually a club but a club night that takes place in different locations. Check the website for more information.